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	<title>Comments on: Beware of False “Go-Giver” Premises</title>
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		<title>By: &#8220;But What About When *They* Aren&#8217;t A Go-Giver?&#8221; &#124; Bob Burg</title>
		<link>http://www.thegogiver.com/blog/2010/03/05/beware-of-false-go-giver-premises/comment-page-1/#comment-1126</link>
		<dc:creator>&#8220;But What About When *They* Aren&#8217;t A Go-Giver?&#8221; &#124; Bob Burg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2011 11:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] * If you&#8217;re interested, feel free to read my two-part article on John David Mann&#8217;s and my &#8220;The Go-Giver&#8221; blog entitled, &#8220;Beware of False Go-Giver Premises.&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] * If you&#8217;re interested, feel free to read my two-part article on John David Mann&#8217;s and my &#8220;The Go-Giver&#8221; blog entitled, &#8220;Beware of False Go-Giver Premises.&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Interview: Co-Author of &#34;The Go-Giver,&#34; Bob Burg The Minimalist Trader</title>
		<link>http://www.thegogiver.com/blog/2010/03/05/beware-of-false-go-giver-premises/comment-page-1/#comment-1080</link>
		<dc:creator>Interview: Co-Author of &#34;The Go-Giver,&#34; Bob Burg The Minimalist Trader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Jan 2011 20:38:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wrote a blog post once entitled: &#8220;Beware of False Go-Giver Premises,&#8221; because when you have a book with the title &#8220;Go-Giver,&#8221; people often want to [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] wrote a blog post once entitled: &#8220;Beware of False Go-Giver Premises,&#8221; because when you have a book with the title &#8220;Go-Giver,&#8221; people often want to [...]</p>
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		<title>By: That Thing About Thinking &#124; Bob Burg</title>
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		<dc:creator>That Thing About Thinking &#124; Bob Burg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 05:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Facebook reader, in response to my article on The Go-Giver.com blog on misunderstanding false premises regarding being a Go-Giver [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Facebook reader, in response to my article on The Go-Giver.com blog on misunderstanding false premises regarding being a Go-Giver [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Hagerup</title>
		<link>http://www.thegogiver.com/blog/2010/03/05/beware-of-false-go-giver-premises/comment-page-1/#comment-781</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy Hagerup</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 21:18:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just listened to an archived phone call with Mentoring For Free that you did on Saturday, I believe. I really like your premise and have put your books on my Amazon wishlist! I was glad to come across your website thru someone&#039;s tweet. Thanks for all your help. Blessings, Amy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just listened to an archived phone call with Mentoring For Free that you did on Saturday, I believe. I really like your premise and have put your books on my Amazon wishlist! I was glad to come across your website thru someone&#8217;s tweet. Thanks for all your help. Blessings, Amy</p>
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		<title>By: Bones Rodriguez</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bones Rodriguez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 22:10:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, what I mean is that all of the things that you add make the value higher, and that&#039;s WHY they pay you more. And it is always an even trade.

What I&#039;m saying is that BY DEFINITION of money, all their safety concerns, and other things they want GET a monetary value- and it&#039;s always arbitrary and subjective.

The price you put on your hitches reflects what YOU think they are &quot;worth&quot;, but if no customers felt the same way, you&#039;d have to change some things, right?

I no longer think our system of money works, and it is SLOWING our communal growth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, what I mean is that all of the things that you add make the value higher, and that&#8217;s WHY they pay you more. And it is always an even trade.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;m saying is that BY DEFINITION of money, all their safety concerns, and other things they want GET a monetary value- and it&#8217;s always arbitrary and subjective.</p>
<p>The price you put on your hitches reflects what YOU think they are &#8220;worth&#8221;, but if no customers felt the same way, you&#8217;d have to change some things, right?</p>
<p>I no longer think our system of money works, and it is SLOWING our communal growth.</p>
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		<title>By: Sean Woodruff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sean Woodruff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 02:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting analysis, Bones.

I think you start by saying that the customer defines the value received.  Yes, I certainly agree with that.

Then, I think you say it is impossible to provide more in value than the price because the money is the only value exchange taking place.  

Wait, what if the customer doesn&#039;t define value only with money?  

For example, I manufacture a special trailer hitch.  We take pieces of steel and cut them, weld them, and assemble them into a mechanism that connects a tow vehicle to a trailer.  If steel for money was a dollar for dollar exchange we would never sell a single hitch because there are &quot;hitches&quot; that cost A LOT less than what I manufacture.

What I have found, through interactions with many thousands of customers, is that many people do not put a high value on the money.  My customers value such things as their family&#039;s safety, the memories they create with friends and family, and worry and stress-free driving.  Most also value a trusted professional that can answer questions regarding their equipment and specific situation.  All of these things, I have found, deliver MORE value than I receive in dollars/price.  I&#039;m not stating that as a fact defined by me but as a fact defined by customers that purchase the product.

Maybe I am off in understanding your comment but in my world what you are saying just doesn&#039;t make any sense.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting analysis, Bones.</p>
<p>I think you start by saying that the customer defines the value received.  Yes, I certainly agree with that.</p>
<p>Then, I think you say it is impossible to provide more in value than the price because the money is the only value exchange taking place.  </p>
<p>Wait, what if the customer doesn&#8217;t define value only with money?  </p>
<p>For example, I manufacture a special trailer hitch.  We take pieces of steel and cut them, weld them, and assemble them into a mechanism that connects a tow vehicle to a trailer.  If steel for money was a dollar for dollar exchange we would never sell a single hitch because there are &#8220;hitches&#8221; that cost A LOT less than what I manufacture.</p>
<p>What I have found, through interactions with many thousands of customers, is that many people do not put a high value on the money.  My customers value such things as their family&#8217;s safety, the memories they create with friends and family, and worry and stress-free driving.  Most also value a trusted professional that can answer questions regarding their equipment and specific situation.  All of these things, I have found, deliver MORE value than I receive in dollars/price.  I&#8217;m not stating that as a fact defined by me but as a fact defined by customers that purchase the product.</p>
<p>Maybe I am off in understanding your comment but in my world what you are saying just doesn&#8217;t make any sense.</p>
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		<title>By: Bones Rodriguez</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bones Rodriguez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 20:04:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the reason so many people misunderstand the message is because of a fundamental flaw in the system.

It is IMPOSSIBLE to give more in value than you receive in money, because YOU don&#039;t set the price- 

The Customer does.

and even then, there is really no way to quantify it.

this section: &quot;I asked if, with her normal price, she was providing significantly more in value than what she was charging, while still making a significant profit. She said, “Yes, absolutely.”&quot;

Makes absolutely NO sense.

Every single employee will tell you they provide more in value than they are paid, and every customer would ALWAYS prefer to pay less for something, and every person wants to be on the &quot;winning&quot; side of the equation because that&#039;s how our system is set up.

AND IT&#039;S ALL SUBJECTIVE ANYWAY.

10 bananas for 5 pears is equal only if both people agree. And a &quot;profit&quot; shouldn&#039;t be a part of it- it makes NO sense.

Just to put it closer to home, I happened to love your books, and paid for them, but other books, not nearly as much, yet I paid the same for them. All of these &quot;add-ons&quot; like the blog, community, etc are all great, an in theory they &quot;add value&#039;, but THEY DO NOT because of the definition of money!

Again- I paid the SAME for them.

I think that so many of us have issues not with Charging money, but getting a PROFIT is usually the issue.

Because we all understand emotionally that it actually NEVER equals out.

I had a ton of more to say, kinda just saying the same thing, but would love to have a conversation...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the reason so many people misunderstand the message is because of a fundamental flaw in the system.</p>
<p>It is IMPOSSIBLE to give more in value than you receive in money, because YOU don&#8217;t set the price- </p>
<p>The Customer does.</p>
<p>and even then, there is really no way to quantify it.</p>
<p>this section: &#8220;I asked if, with her normal price, she was providing significantly more in value than what she was charging, while still making a significant profit. She said, “Yes, absolutely.”&#8221;</p>
<p>Makes absolutely NO sense.</p>
<p>Every single employee will tell you they provide more in value than they are paid, and every customer would ALWAYS prefer to pay less for something, and every person wants to be on the &#8220;winning&#8221; side of the equation because that&#8217;s how our system is set up.</p>
<p>AND IT&#8217;S ALL SUBJECTIVE ANYWAY.</p>
<p>10 bananas for 5 pears is equal only if both people agree. And a &#8220;profit&#8221; shouldn&#8217;t be a part of it- it makes NO sense.</p>
<p>Just to put it closer to home, I happened to love your books, and paid for them, but other books, not nearly as much, yet I paid the same for them. All of these &#8220;add-ons&#8221; like the blog, community, etc are all great, an in theory they &#8220;add value&#8217;, but THEY DO NOT because of the definition of money!</p>
<p>Again- I paid the SAME for them.</p>
<p>I think that so many of us have issues not with Charging money, but getting a PROFIT is usually the issue.</p>
<p>Because we all understand emotionally that it actually NEVER equals out.</p>
<p>I had a ton of more to say, kinda just saying the same thing, but would love to have a conversation&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Bob Burg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Burg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:06:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank YOU, Teryl. It&#039;s obvious that you&#039;ve come to understand and embrace the exceptional value you are providing, and that you are able to receive in abundance as a result of providing that value. And everyone comes out the better for it! Rock on!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank YOU, Teryl. It&#8217;s obvious that you&#8217;ve come to understand and embrace the exceptional value you are providing, and that you are able to receive in abundance as a result of providing that value. And everyone comes out the better for it! Rock on!</p>
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		<title>By: Teryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 22:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for creating a space for ongoing practice and understanding of the five laws of stratospheric success!

As one of the owners of a Wellness Spa and Fitness facility, I have had ongoing struggles within myself regarding fees for service, etc. I have such a passion for what I do as a fitness professional and would of course do it for &quot;free&quot;, easily. It took some time for me to realize, as I watched peoples lives change due to the work we did together, that there was really no price value that could be placed on genuine concern for others and increasing the quality of their life! The payment was just that, as the value of what they were getting was priceless! Thanks so much for breaking down these most practical laws!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for creating a space for ongoing practice and understanding of the five laws of stratospheric success!</p>
<p>As one of the owners of a Wellness Spa and Fitness facility, I have had ongoing struggles within myself regarding fees for service, etc. I have such a passion for what I do as a fitness professional and would of course do it for &#8220;free&#8221;, easily. It took some time for me to realize, as I watched peoples lives change due to the work we did together, that there was really no price value that could be placed on genuine concern for others and increasing the quality of their life! The payment was just that, as the value of what they were getting was priceless! Thanks so much for breaking down these most practical laws!</p>
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		<title>By: John David Mann</title>
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		<dc:creator>John David Mann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 04:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Harm,

The book you&#039;re looking for is actually called &lt;i&gt;The Go-Giver&lt;/i&gt; — and you can find links to it right here on this site.  Also visit the home page, there is a link there to receive the first chapter as a free sample.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Harm,</p>
<p>The book you&#8217;re looking for is actually called <i>The Go-Giver</i> — and you can find links to it right here on this site.  Also visit the home page, there is a link there to receive the first chapter as a free sample.</p>
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